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Monday, September 23, 2013

WHEN YOUR FRIEND FLIRTS WITH YOUR LOVER..............

 What do you do when your close friend constantly flirts with your Man/Woman?
     When you complain it looks like you are paranoid or insecure but you know your friend too well and you know what they are doing is flirting!. What do you do to that friend? Talk heart to heart? Warn them off?Avoid bringing up the discussion or cut them off completely?
Do you have a friend right now flirting corner corner with your lover and using valid excuses?
Are you watching helplessly because you dont want to be termed a trouble maker?
Are you flirting with your friend's lover right now?
Why are you doing it and what do you hope to achieve?
Some of you have told your friends so many intimate things about your lover that all they want to do is 'taste the pudding'..lol....but to what point is it okay to keep quiet about it and just watch helplessly
       So at what point does that friend goes past your threshold and at what point do you speak out to save your relationship?
         What level of flirting is safe and which is toxic?

3 comments:

  1. Yeah, this is realistic, in actual fact, it is happening to ♍e, bt even at that, they say the devil u knw is better that the ones u don't, see, I don't have to neccesarily trust the guy, I mean, testosterone is ready to lead any guy off the cliff, I guess who I really have to rely and expect much from ♍y girl...they say ' what will be will be' no amount of public jealousy or paronoia will prevent him from tasting or better still eating the pudding if she's stupid enought to hand it out to him on a platter of a diamond encrusted Gold...so except she tells ♍e he is encrouching on her personal space then I don't havr to kill myself on that....life is that simple

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  2. To me it depends,if u lover falls 4 ur frnd durin d flirtin,u don enter am,cos ur gettin dumped,nd if u lover complains abt it den u av 2 stand up 2 ur frnd nd tell him/her 2 back off,nd if ur lover tells u it no biggy,u just av 2 bear d pain nd trust her its no biggy

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  3. As long has he hasn't started wanting to taste it......I don't knw if anyone here has heard of 'pudding poisoning' lol...people , u shuld always let sleeping dogs lie, respect ur frnds emotions and the partner's too and don't even start it at all...they say 'do to others what u would have dem do to you' I'm sure no guy or girl, however hw calm or cool they seem outside, will enjoy the effects of that....to be reasonable..

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